Hi Paula,
Thanks so much for reaching out again!
I’m glad to hear that you have been able to make some progress with what you have been trying to achieve.
Just to let you know, we are limited by our Support Policy in how much we can help with customizations, so this request is slightly beyond the support that we can provide.
If this functionality is a requirement for your intended project, I’d suggest that a third-party developer would be the best way to make this feature happen on a short timeline. ? We maintain a list of developers who work with our plugins on our Knowledgebase here:
https://theeventscalendar.com/knowledgebase/find-a-customizer/
You are welcome to vote on this idea in our Feature Requests here: https://tribe.uservoice.com/forums/195723-feature-ideas/suggestions/16658239-add-a-datepicker-for-birth-dates-or-any-other-dat
We take customer feedback into consideration when implementing new features, so your input is greatly appreciated!
Please let me know if anything else comes up!
Thanks,
Jaime