Hi Betty,
I’m sorry to hear you hit some difficulties.
If the problem is theme-specific or isn’t helped by the “Show Events in Main Blog Loop” setting we’d really have to look into your specific scenario in more depth.
I’m afraid we don’t deliver technical support here in the pre-sales forum, though, so if that’s the case we’d be happy to help – but I have to ask that you either log in with your account (if you have one) and post on the appropriate premium forum or else post your question on our wordpress.org forum.
Thanks!