You can do this by selecting the filters you want, and then copying the link from the address bar. You can see an example over on our demo site wpshindig.com.
You can filter starting from a specific date using the default Tribe bar (see screenshot), but there is not currently a default way to filter for one specific date in map/list view. If this is a feature you would like to see added in the future, we’d love it if you could post the idea in our Feature Ideas Forum! We use it to gauge user interest in new features and help plan future development.
I would recommend taking a look at the following articles for more info on getting up and running with Filter Bar: