Hi,
Sorry for the issues you are having. I can help troubleshoot this with you.
It looks like there is a bug in 4.1.4 with the settings.
We recommend downgrading to 4.1.3 to fix the issue for now.
You can download older versions of the core plugin here:
https://wordpress.org/plugins/the-events-calendar/developers/
And follow these steps to manually update the plugin:
Manual Updates
This process does not delete or change events or their settings.
Let us know if this helps the issue.
Thanks