Howdy ellaj,
I am happy to assist you with those questions.
First of all there is a small bug in 3.6 that causes the reverse order day view problem. This can be fixed by inserting this snippet into your theme’s functions.php. Of course we will be fixing this soon in a plugin update.
Second, if you edit the event that only shows up in Day view, is the box ‘Hide this event from event listings’ checked? If so, you can uncheck it to show it other views.
Does that all make sense? Please let me know. Cheers!
– Brook