Hi Jordan,
Thanks for reaching out, these are good questions!
From what I can tell, there is no simple setting to make one event appear above another. If you check out our Themer’s Guide, you could probably make a template override to display what you want. Unfortunately that level of customization goes beyond the scope of the forums.
I would say multiday events are for events of consecutive days, like a camp, festival or fairs. Reoccurring events are best for days with gaps, like an event that happens once a month or week like lunch meetings, book clubs or sporting events.
Ultimately, it might be best to reconsider how you publicize your month long events. Unless attendees are going to be physically present throughout the entire duration (all 30 days straight), it may confuse guests when compared to other events that have a listed ‘start’ and ‘end’ time. Of course, increasing the number of “Month view events per day” in the Display Settings is a viable option too.
Does this make sense? Let me know if I can expand on anything.
Cheers!
– Casey Driscoll