Pending Events Aren’t Displayed
I’m a little confused here. You say “when I visit my events” – does that mean in the admin dashboard? You have nine events listed there? And I’m not understanding what you mean when you say “pending events”. Do you mean “drafts” or “pending review” status? Or upcoming events (in the future)? If by chance you mean “drafts” or “pending review”, they would not be displayed on the calendar on the front end. Only “published” events show up there.
So my first thought is, do you by chance have your Facebook settings set to import into “draft” or “pending review” as the default? Maybe check that.
And if I’ve totally misunderstood the problem, please forgive me and help me get on track so I can assist you.