Hey David,
It’s unfortunately not possible to modify the script-loading behavior without extensive custom coding, which we cannot help with.
We are working on a fix for an upcoming release that would truly limit all stylesheets and scripts of the Events Calendar (and its add-ons!) to the relevant pages only.
I do not have a specific ETA for this fix, but I just wanted to make it clear that we agree that the assets should only load where needed and are working hard to ensure that that’s the case.
Sincerely,
George