Hi,
Sorry for the troubles you are having.
Thanks for providing the images. I am not sure what the problem is, but this image shows the Event List Widget:
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/64620520/2014-11-05_034436.png
This image shows the Mini Calendar Widget on the Front End
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/64620520/2014-11-05_034359.png
The Mini Calendar widget in the backend does not have the same options as the list. The settings looks like this
https://theeventscalendar.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/014_WidgetConfigPt1.png (the top widget titled Events Calendar)
Can you check what the settings are for that widget.
Let me know what you find out and we can go from there.
Thanks