Hey Sherry,
Thanks for reaching out. I’m sorry to hear about these issues!
We cannot provide technical support here in our free “Pre-Sales Questions”, so the first thing to do here is to get your account issues sorted out so that you can log in and post your support questions to a premium forum here on http://theeventscalendar.com
To do this, please copy the full text of the iCal Importer license key that is in your wp-admin, and paste that license key into an email to this email address:
support at theeventscalendar.com
We can use that license key to look up your account information and help from there, though that discussion must proceed over email because it’s dealing with private information.
See you over email!
George