Hi @a1goodlifecal,
I’m sorry to hear you’ve been hitting up against performance issues.
One of the first things I would normally recommend – month view caching – already seems to have been enabled (via Events → Settings → Display) so that’s great and has hopefully helped at least a little.
I wonder, how many events do you have in total? If you visit the admin events list you should see some figures at the top of the screen like this:
All (1,908) | Published (1,671) | Draft (3) ...
What do you see there?
Can you also tell me about the new server – is this a “pre-rolled” hosting package and can you give me some more details about the provider and what they offer, or if it is a VPS can you provide me with some more information on the specification?
Last but not least, have you tried using a caching plugin to help mitigate the problem?